Muslim Women and the Hijab

Just read an interesting article on CNN.com regarding why Muslim women wear the hijab. Honestly, I'm really not buying it. And it has nothing to do with the Muslim temple or church or whatever it is being built at ground zero. That one I'll leave alone because frankly I don't care. If you know me at all then you know I regard all religions equally.

The interviewees in the bit explain that they cover themselves so as not to be objectified and obsess over their physical appearance. Okay, I get that. But then they seem to be indignant about negative responses to this choice. As I see it this decision is not much different than the "low cut shirts and form fitting pants" one woman decried from her earlier days. Whether you're scantily clad or covered head to toe makes no difference. Both behaviors will get you noticed. I contend that your are seeking attention.

I make no judgment on whether that attention seeking is good or bad. But acknowledging that craving to be noticed is a good first step. I am not sure that respect will be gained or lost from the staring men that you apparently deem above all else. Depends on the group. Have your religion if you want and be proud of it. Embrace the burqa and the hijab as your way of expressing yourself -- especially in America -- but then brace yourself because every other self-important citizen will be giving you their own expressions. The fact that one might be surprised by this is the most shocking feature of the article.

Lastly, if you truly are a self-conscious person who does not want to be judged by your physical appearance take my advice -- blend. I've been screaming this for years. Blend. Wear black, browns, any muted tone will do. Choose necklines that are neither too low or too high. Fit should be loose but not baggy. Jeans are your best friend. But not low rise or mommy jeans. The less accessories you can live with the better. Keep your head down. There's really no need for a hijab afterall when you could just buy a tshirt from Pdawg that says "I'm Muslim." Very affordable too. Stay tuned for more fashion advice.